I Choose Today

I Choose Today...

I Choose Today to Set Priorities

My husband and I have some long time friends who opened up to us about a struggle they were having in their marriage. The reason for their struggle is they were not prioritizing spending time together. They each had their own agenda of what they needed/wanted to do, but most times it didn’t include the other person. Soon feeling neglect were realized and tension and accusation began. My husband and I shared with them what we do to be intentional about prioritizing our relationship. Each morning, we “meet” in his office to have coffee, conversation, devotional, and prayer; we call it our touchpoint. It usually lasts from 15-30 minutes, as time allows. Then on Fridays, after work, we sit on the porch for some “back porch sitting,” to wind down our week together. Yet another prioritized touchpoint. These two touch-points have done wonders for our relationship. We have found out more about each other, have lively conversation, laughed together, cried together, asked for forgiveness, and been forgiven. There is another relationship that needs prioritized with the same intentionality as we do for our marriages; our relationship with our heavenly Father, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. When I intentionally spend time

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I Choose Today to do Life with God

Dwell in the house of the Lord forever… Does praying intimidate you? Does the idea of praying leave you stumped on how to begin, what to say, or even how to talk to the God of the universe? My sister and I live far apart from one another: one in the western part and one on the eastern part of the country. We maybe see each other once or twice a year. However, we do not let our proximity to one another get in the way of enjoying our relationship together. We can spend hours on the phone just doing life together. We could be running errands, cleaning the house, making dinner, driving home from the city (which for me is about an hour). Sometimes she bumps into someone she knows and has a conversation, and I just hang out as if I was standing next to her.  When she is done, we pick up where we left off. We can have a deep conversation, talk about our problems, give each other guidance, laugh together, cry together, be still and quiet together. That is the relationship David had with God. All David wanted to do was spend all his time

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the “right time” is now

Good morning my friends. I was reading in 2 Corinthians 6:1-2, “As God’s partners, we beg you not to accept this marvelous gift of God’s kindness and then ignore it. For God says, ‘At the right time I heard you. On the day of salvation, I helped you.’” Indeed, the “right time” is now. Today is the day of salvation. What are we waiting for? I appreciate so much all the opportunities the Lord has given me over the years to be known as a believer in Christ.  Yet I have let the Lord down numerous times when I put all my effort into stuff, buildings and thought I was doing the right thing. I remember one time, I had just returned from a meeting in town with one of my friends, Tom Coble. We had been discussing a new building project here at Siloam Missionary Homes. I was so excited as I drove onto the property – I could see the project finished in my mind. Yet, I was tired. Driving to the bottom of the hill on the Siloam property, I was stopped by Joyce’s father, Mr. Abbey.  He had worked all day on the books in the

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to spend alone time with God

Good morning, my friend. This morning in my quiet time with the Lord I was once again reminded how important it is to spend time with God. I am a beginning a new chapter in my life. I’m working on my CPE (Clinical  Pastoral Education) at UNC in Chapel Hill, NC. School starts Monday, January 8th. This gives me a new prospective on life and I want to give it my all. But, even with this new challenge, I must remember that I need to have alone time with God.  I can’t run all the time and not become weary. I need to be ready when God needs me to go. He provided a way by His own example of spending alone time with His Father. Jesus knew His time was limited, but he also showed his disciples how important it is to get alone with God. If there is one thing that the Lord is showing me today is to slow down and follow His instructions. Spend my early time with Him. Then I’m ready. Joyce’s dad used to begin his day with me at the prayer rock. He was trying to teach me the importance of beginning my

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