I Choose Today to Speak Life

There is a saying that many of us used when we were kids that went something like this: “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me.” But this statement is not true, is it? Words do hurt, and most of the time, the hurt runs deeper and lasts longer than physical pain.

This truth is the reason why we need to use our words wisely when speaking to our loved ones, friends, and fellow believers. But it is especially important when we are engaging with non-believers. Paul talks about this in his letter to the Colossian church when he says:

“Use your heads as you live and work among outsiders [unbelievers]. Don’t miss a trick. Make the most of every opportunity. Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out.” (Colossians 4:5-6 MSG, emphasis mine)

Paul urges gracious speech, aiming to encourage and bring out the best in others—a stark contrast to our human instincts. When faced with unkindness or attacks on our beliefs, our natural response is defensiveness. I confess, I’ve been guilty of this too! Yet, responding in kind doesn’t contribute to the kingdom of God; it may even harm our testimony.

So how are we to handle such instances as these, especially with unbelievers? Fortunately for us, we have a guidebook and the Guide to help us with life: the Bible and Jesus!

Jesus’ words show us how to respond when we are attacked, insulted, or mistreated. He says:

“You have heard the law that says the punishment must match the injury: ‘An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say, do not resist an evil person! If someone slaps you on the right cheek, offer the other cheek also.” (Matthew 5:38-39 NLT)

Easier said than done, isn’t it? On our own, this seems impossible. However, with the empowering presence of the Holy Spirit, all things become possible—even the challenging act of turning the other cheek!

Let’s make this practical. Imagine someone ridicules your faith or mocks your beliefs. Your initial reaction might be to respond in anger or defensiveness. But instead of reacting, pause and pray. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide your response. Could you reply with kindness or even a question to understand their perspective? Sometimes, a soft answer can break through barriers, paving the way for meaningful dialogue.

Words are powerful—they can build bridges or burn them. Today, choose to use your words to speak life, grace, and hope. Imagine the impact of choosing to bless rather than curse, even in difficult conversations.

“Holy Spirit, when we are faced with a situation where we need to turn the other cheek, please empower us to do so. We only want to promote the kingdom of God in our words and deeds. Help us today to choose to be ambassadors for the kingdom. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Take a moment today to reflect on the power of your words. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide your speech, especially when faced with challenging conversations. How can you speak life into someone today—encouraging them and reflecting God’s love? Choose one intentional way to make your words a source of grace and healing, whether by offering encouragement, apologizing, or simply listening without judgment.

This revised version incorporates practical examples, emphasizes application, and strengthens the flow while staying aligned with scripture and your mission. Let me know if you’d like any further tweaks!