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I Choose Today to Live From Favor, Not Labor

In this week’s episode of the I Choose Today podcast, we continued our Identity series by talking about something that quietly shapes the way many of us live, the difference between favor and labor. Last week we talked about being accepted instead of chasing approval. We talked about how identity in Christ is something we receive, not something we earn. But once that truth begins to settle into your heart, another question often rises: If I am accepted, how do I live from that acceptance instead of striving to maintain it? Many of us don’t struggle to believe that God loves us. We struggle to believe we don’t have to earn what flows from that love. We’ve been conditioned to think that blessing follows effort, that closeness with God must be maintained through performance, and that favor increases when we try harder. But Scripture paints a different picture. Luke 2 tells us that Jesus “grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.” That verse is powerful because it doesn’t say Jesus earned favor. It says He grew in it. Favor was already present. At His baptism, before performing a single miracle, the Father declared, “This is

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I Choose Today to Live Accepted, Not Approved

This week on the I Choose Today Podcast, we continued our Identity in Christ series by talking about something many of us don’t realize we’re still carrying, the need for approval. There was a season in my life when I believed I needed to prove my value. I accelerated my four-year degree into eighteen months. I earned difficult certifications. I pursued a master’s degree because I thought it would show I had what it took to excel in my field. From the outside, it looked focused and driven. But underneath it all was a quiet question that never seemed to go away: Am I enough yet? I remember asking God why I felt so unsettled despite the achievements. And gently, He showed me the truth. My motivation was off. I wasn’t pursuing excellence from confidence, I was chasing validation. I was not building worth. I was trying to prove it. What I didn’t yet understand was the difference between approval and acceptance. Approval is performance-based. It fluctuates. It increases when we succeed and decreases when we fail. Approval is earned. Acceptance, on the other hand, is positional. It is given. Scripture says we are “accepted in the Beloved” (Ephesians 1:6).

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I Choose Today to Walk in Humble Discernment

I am a deep diver. When something captures my interest, I want to understand it fully. I want context, layers, background, motive, meaning. The more I learn, the more I want to learn. That is especially true when it comes to Scripture. The more I discover about God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit, the more I realize how much more there is to know. And yet Scripture reminds us: “For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away.” — 1 Corinthians 13:9–10 We know in part. Not in full. Not completely. Just… in part. Recently, I began thinking about how true that is of people as well. The other night my husband and I were talking about a public story involving someone who confessed to an affair during a live interview, which is how his wife found out. My immediate response was, “Your sin will find you out.” That phrase comes from Numbers 32:23, and Scripture certainly shows us that sin has a way of surfacing. David’s life is proof of that. We know the headlines: his affair with Bathsheba. The arranged death of Uriah. The attempt to conceal

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I Choose Today to Rest in Being Loved and Secure

As I shared in this week’s episode of the I Choose Today podcast, there is a truth about our identity in Christ that many of us struggle to fully trust: we are securely loved by God. After learning that our identity is received, not achieved, that we can rest from striving, and that we are chosen and known, a quieter question often rises in the heart: Will He keep loving me? Many of us have known love that changed. Love that depended on behavior. Love that came close when we were doing well and pulled back when we weren’t. So we carry that pattern into our relationship with God, assuming His love might fluctuate too. But Scripture tells us something very different. It says, “God is love.” Love is not something He occasionally expresses. It is His nature. He cannot depart from who He is. God does not wake up one day feeling less loving, nor does He ration love according to our spiritual performance. If God stopped loving, He would stop being Himself, and that cannot happen. When we read 1 Corinthians 13, we often think about how we should love others. But if God is love, then this

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I Choose Today to Remember I Belong to Him

There is a verse where Jesus says, “Apart from Me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5) At first glance, that can feel confusing. Because Scripture also tells us that when we belong to Christ, God lives in us and we live in Him (1 John 4:15). So how do those truths fit together? If He dwells in us, does that mean we never do anything apart from Him? Paul helps us understand this in his letter to the Corinthians. The believers there had started believing that what they did with their bodies didn’t matter much. But Paul corrected that thinking with a powerful reminder: “The one who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him.” (1 Corinthians 6:17) Salvation isn’t just a belief, it’s a union. We belong to Christ. We are not spiritually independent people anymore. Paul goes even further: “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you…? Therefore honor God with your bodies.” (1 Corinthians 6:19–20) Here’s the key. Jesus’ words, “apart from Me you can do nothing,” are not saying we are incapable of action, clearly we make choices every day. What He is saying is

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