I Choose Today

I Choose Today...

to let everyday be like Christmas.

Joyce and I are going through a Bible plan together and each day is like Christmas morning to me. Growing up as a little boy, I remember well the excitement that would start to build at Thanksgiving. In those days, you waited until the day after Thanksgiving to put up your Christmas decorations. Our Christmas would begin with getting the Christmas tree. I know it’s hard to believe, but we could buy a tree for $7.00. They were in the front yard of Mrs. Miller’s house. I remember one year that I had $5.00 in my pocket from delivering newspapers and Mrs. Miller let me purchase one of her trees for the $5.00 I had. This was before cell phones and I suddenly realized I had no way to get it home!  And on top of all this, I still had newspapers to deliver. I remember finishing my route and then getting my brothers to help me put the tree on a sled and drag it home. Just writing this makes me excited for Christmas to come. We can carry the joy of Christmas every day by spending time with the Lord and reading His words of joy. One of

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I Choose Today to be an Effective Listener

As you may or may not know, I was not afforded (nor was prepared) the opportunity to attend college when I was younger. So, during Covid, I took the opportunity to accomplish that goal. I was on a mission to get my classes done as quickly and efficiently as possible. So when I saw the class Effective Listening, I thought it would be an easy class. After all, I was a pretty good listener. Boy was I wrong! This class was so hard, but yet so rewarding. This class taught me several crucial aspects of effective listening. First, it emphasized the importance of being present in a conversation. Second, it highlighted the need to listen for a deep understanding of the speaker’s message, both verbally and non-verbally. Third, it stressed the significance of listening with compassion and empathy. Moreover, the class taught me to approach listening with intentionality. Demonstrating active listening through body language and short responses became a key takeaway. So many times, we listen only to voice our opinions, come up with a rebuttal, or to pretend we are listening but really not interested (which is usually obvious to the speaker/talker).  Sometimes we get angry or insulted by

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I Choose Today to Know there is Purpose in Pain and Waiting

There is purpose in the waiting; there is purpose in the pain. There is an expression “it will be worth the wait.” Well, God ALWAYS shows us that His timing is worth the wait. The account of what happened when Lazarus dies (falls asleep) (John 11:1-44) shows us so much about Jesus and the power He has over death. He wanted to illustrate a point; He wanted to show the people (of the time and all those since) that He alone has the power and was sent to conquer death. It showed His divinity. But He also showed His humanity and love by having compassion for His friends’ pain. Which by weeping with them, showing compassion for them, comforting them, He illustrated how He would do the same for us. He was showing us how He responds to our pain. It seems to me that it is easy for us to understand that Jesus conquered death and that He is compassionate and understands our pain. But the waiting? We don’t get it. Am I on target or am I the only one who has a hard time understanding it? Just as Jesus was illustrating a point of His power over

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to enjoy a bluebird house….

Hello, my friend. I love to watch birds and see where they fly. They don’t seem to have a care in the world. They spend a lot of time looking for food and a place to find shelter. A few years ago, Al Mitchel made Joyce and I several bird houses and one of them was a bluebird house. I love bluebirds – they are so beautiful. When Al brought the bluebird house to us, he looked around and chose the place he thought would be best and hung it close to the house so we could watch it. Once completed, Al grinned in a mischievous way while looking at the puzzled look on my face. As he walked away, he said, “Just watch it, but don’t touch it. In a few weeks you will have a family of bluebirds.” So, every day I would go to the window and look at the birdhouse he had hung. After a while, I got too busy and I forgot about it.  One Saturday morning about a month later, I was drinking a cup of coffee and remembered that I hadn’t been keeping watch. So, I got up from my chair and looked

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I Choose Today to be mindful of God’s miracles

I love what a friend of mine said in our devotional together, “God is in the miracle business. Hallelujah! But you don’t get a miracle unless you need a miracle!” This couldn’t be more true! It seems to me that we have to exhaust all our efforts before God steps in to do “…through His mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.” That way He gets all the glory! If people see we do great things in our own power and strength, how does that make an impact for God’s power? We want our lives to point people to Him so they too will have a personal relationship with their Heavenly Father (through salvation through Jesus) and live eternally with Him. We want that for our kids, our loved ones, and honestly for everyone. But like my friend said, we need to be in need of a miracle, come to the end of ourselves, and allow God to show up and show off! Trust! Surrender! Wait! Miracle! All these things add up to giving God the glory in our love to point more people to Him! “Thank You, Father for always

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