I Choose Today...

I Choose Today to Live From Who I Already Am

Over the past year, we’ve been walking a journey together. Fifty episodes. Fifty conversations. Fifty opportunities to pause, reflect, and choose differently. And as I sat with this moment, Episode 51, the end of this first season, I felt led to do something simple. Pause. Because sometimes the most meaningful thing we can do is stop and look at where God has brought us. Over the last several episodes, we’ve been talking about identity. Who we are in Christ. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, both in my own life and in walking alongside others, it’s this: Everything changes when we understand who we are. Because when we don’t know who we are, we strive. We compare. We perform. We try to earn what has already been given. But when identity settles into our hearts, something shifts. We stop striving… and we begin living. This series began with receiving identity. Not carving it. Not earning it. Not proving it. But receiving it. Because so many of us have spent years trying to become someone, trying to measure up, trying to prove our worth, trying to feel like we belong. But Scripture reminds us that in Christ, identity is not

Read More »

I Choose Today to Remain Teachable

When I was younger, I played a lot of sports. One thing my coaches repeated over and over was that if we wanted to grow as athletes, we had to be coachable and teachable. That meant being willing to learn something new by acquiring new information, and then actually trying it. It meant receiving feedback without becoming defensive. It meant learning from mistakes and trying again. It meant stepping outside our comfort zone and trusting that the coach saw something we might not yet see in ourselves. A good coach stretches you. Motivates you. Encourages you. Corrects you. And sometimes positions you in ways that feel uncomfortable because they know it will help you grow. But none of that works if the athlete refuses to be taught. To be coachable requires humility. It requires a desire to learn. It requires being self-aware enough to recognize where improvement is needed and courageous enough to make changes. Constructive criticism becomes a gift instead of a threat. The goal is growth. As I was praying this morning, asking the Holy Spirit to teach and train me for the position He has placed me in, something dawned on me. The Holy Spirit is our

Read More »

I Choose Today to Live From Favor, Not Labor

In this week’s episode of the I Choose Today podcast, we continued our Identity series by talking about something that quietly shapes the way many of us live, the difference between favor and labor. Last week we talked about being accepted instead of chasing approval. We talked about how identity in Christ is something we receive, not something we earn. But once that truth begins to settle into your heart, another question often rises: If I am accepted, how do I live from that acceptance instead of striving to maintain it? Many of us don’t struggle to believe that God loves us. We struggle to believe we don’t have to earn what flows from that love. We’ve been conditioned to think that blessing follows effort, that closeness with God must be maintained through performance, and that favor increases when we try harder. But Scripture paints a different picture. Luke 2 tells us that Jesus “grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.” That verse is powerful because it doesn’t say Jesus earned favor. It says He grew in it. Favor was already present. At His baptism, before performing a single miracle, the Father declared, “This is

Read More »

I Choose Today to Live Accepted, Not Approved

This week on the I Choose Today Podcast, we continued our Identity in Christ series by talking about something many of us don’t realize we’re still carrying, the need for approval. There was a season in my life when I believed I needed to prove my value. I accelerated my four-year degree into eighteen months. I earned difficult certifications. I pursued a master’s degree because I thought it would show I had what it took to excel in my field. From the outside, it looked focused and driven. But underneath it all was a quiet question that never seemed to go away: Am I enough yet? I remember asking God why I felt so unsettled despite the achievements. And gently, He showed me the truth. My motivation was off. I wasn’t pursuing excellence from confidence, I was chasing validation. I was not building worth. I was trying to prove it. What I didn’t yet understand was the difference between approval and acceptance. Approval is performance-based. It fluctuates. It increases when we succeed and decreases when we fail. Approval is earned. Acceptance, on the other hand, is positional. It is given. Scripture says we are “accepted in the Beloved” (Ephesians 1:6).

Read More »

I Choose Today to Walk in Humble Discernment

I am a deep diver. When something captures my interest, I want to understand it fully. I want context, layers, background, motive, meaning. The more I learn, the more I want to learn. That is especially true when it comes to Scripture. The more I discover about God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit, the more I realize how much more there is to know. And yet Scripture reminds us: “For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away.” — 1 Corinthians 13:9–10 We know in part. Not in full. Not completely. Just… in part. Recently, I began thinking about how true that is of people as well. The other night my husband and I were talking about a public story involving someone who confessed to an affair during a live interview, which is how his wife found out. My immediate response was, “Your sin will find you out.” That phrase comes from Numbers 32:23, and Scripture certainly shows us that sin has a way of surfacing. David’s life is proof of that. We know the headlines: his affair with Bathsheba. The arranged death of Uriah. The attempt to conceal

Read More »